Advice 101: Anxiety*

     I know a lot of people who have really bad anxiety... why? Simple things can trigger them. We went to a music festival yesterday and when it was our turn to play. I sat in the front row with a couple of other people. Before we started I asked if they were nervous, sure enough they were but why? I could tell from their faces that they were coming down with some anxiety. Personally I wasn't nervous but it felt nice performing on the large stage. We played magnificent over all - maybe not as magnificent as one school but we still came out winners. When you're really nervous and start biting your lip, knocking your knees, shaking your hands or even get sweaty hands... Just remember how you'll feel when it's all over with. The relieved stress is no more. Take a breath, watch your step and just have fun performing like when you're having fun with your friends.

Advice 101: Taking chances*

     Sometimes we've all gotta take chances. I guess it's just life right? At some point in time we've all come to a conclusion of " What do I do next?", " Should I be doing this?" or " This is wrong but...". Pure pressure can do this too but, that's not what I'm blogging  about right now. Taking chances is just in the adventurous package of life so there's nothing else to say except for Y.O.L.O but of course with this comes some other things ... anyway! Back to my point.  What I was saying was, chances takes a lot out of you to do, I understand but ... simple chances can take you so many places, all you have to do is believe in yourself and stay positive never expect anything, just keep an eye out. 

     You never know what you are capable of until you take a chance to find out .

    That awkward moment ...

   Ever had that moment when one of your biggest secrets is exposed to your whole grade? Yeah... I have, it's not all that great but the only way to handle it is just to agree that it's just an exposed secret. Nothing to hide if everyone knows right? Don't deny anything because then it'll all blow up in your face like a bad case of deja  vou. When it gets bad to the point where you can't handle it, just take your mind off of it and hang out with close friends and family.

     Nothing fixes your emotions like some special family time ...

     <<<< Yorkshire

      Yes, yes, yes... I know this is totally random but, Yorkshire is totally off the hook. Isn't it beautiful ...

   Yorkshire is located in Doncaster or also known as in England, you know... Where all those fancy people live.

Different is truly beautiful

       There are some people out there who believe they
aren't good enough. Why does the human race have this problem? I ask myself that exact question all the time. Indeed some people are very talented but that doesn't mean that you aren't. Why do people have to criticize everything? It doesn't make you any better, smarter, or cooler so why must it be on your checking list? Do you write it down purposely or just because you feel like you've got the power. We aren't made to become super heroes. Everybody should believe that they're beautiful because there is no true definition of normal. I dare you to search it up. Beauty is defined by your personality not the way you look or the way you blend in with anybody else but ... about the way you choose to stand out from the rest ...
   
     Beautiful begins with the letter 'B'. It's because you just need to B yourself.

That awkward moment ...

     I hate that awkward moment when you have one annoying friend. It shouldn't be awkward because they're your friend but, who knows perhaps you're not as close to that friend as you think you are?... Maybe that annoying friend has a big mouth that you don't know about, maybe that friend has a bad habit of showing up at the wrong times, maybe their presence annoys you. There's a lot to be annoyed with but, it isn't right if one of your friends is talking about the other. Is it? Then that's settled. When you have an annoying friend (it may seem rude but,) Just tell them what's wrong and why you're annoyed with them otherwise it'll come back to bite you later and you'll be bit hard because you lied to one of your closest friends...

   Hard task. Easy to do it. Confused yet?

     

 Advice 101: The Crush Code*

    So I have a friend (Who'd like to stay anonymous). She wants to know how to talk to her crush without him freaking out. The problem is that he already knows that she's head over heels for him ... Yeah, I know right! Totally sucks. I was the first person she asked for advice. It made me feel really special so I told her I'd post my answer here...

   When your crush knows that you like him and you guys don't talk at all... I guess it sucks right? Well, no worries because you've got me to help you out :) 

   

The steps to becoming un- Crushed*

   1. Don't freak out when your crush finds out that you like him/her. NEVER deny anything just tell the truth before they make rumors about you. ("They" would be the popular group in your school).

   2. Always wait a long period of time ( A couple of days maybe even weeks) when everyone forgets that old secret of you liking him/her. Just make sure that it's out of the gossip area and the coast is clear.

3. Hardest step. Start to make small chats with your crush NO flirting just convenient stuff like "Hey", " How do you...(do something, say a word in french or whatever,) " What's your favourite... etc." Creating small talk can get you closer to your crush so easily that there's no need to become nervous.

4. Try asking someone for your crushs' cell phone number so you can play a game of 'date or pass' or any other easy game where you get to know some personal information. This step becomes the easiest as long as you do number 3. If you don't have a cell phone then you should just talk about it face to face when you guys are alone or with friends.

5. When you guys finally get to be friends and you've gone through steps 3 and 4 especially, start telling your crush some cool things about yourself and include just how talented you are because everyone is talented in something. Just don't sound too self absorbed. 

Success is now yours! ;;) 

Polyvore possibly the best website for any teenage girl out there into fashion!

Polyvore 

Are there any other teenage girls out there that are as interested in fashion as I am? Well if you are there's a site that would totally make you freak. It's called Polyvore, haven't heard of it... you have no life. I'm kidding! But really check it out, it's actually worth your time. Do you have an eye for fashion? I bet you will after this! http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/home  <--- There's the link now go and explore your own world of combinations, mix and match and edgy VS girly.